Imagine someone you call a friend tells you “hey maybe it would be a good idea to stop talking to ‘so and so’ because it’s becoming unhealthy and dangerous, I know this will lead you down a bad path because you and I are alike”. However, as soon as you told that ‘friend’ that you finally had the control of your own mind to put space between you and ‘so and so’, that they start flipping the script, and acting as if you’ve done wrong. And then proceeds to blast you to others, preaching their good graces, and excellent behavior, whilst you’re left alone wondering what you did… and then that “friend” and ‘so and so’ start hanging out, trying to act as if it’s completely normal even though that “friend” told my ROOMMATE/Friend of the last 6 years, that he had “suspicions” he needed confirmed. How would you feel?