I’m sorry if i seemed to be the aggressor. I don’t want to cause an argument with a stranger without proof. I I hope whoever you think I am irl is open to having that clear conversation with you so you can hear it from them directly. Im not being sarcastic; I agree communication is important. I’m being indirect on purpose on here to that person not you . that person already has made it clear they don’t want clarity. So 100% clear communication no gossip is best however for my situation that wasn’t an option